May be wondering, why we are talking about Disney Characters/Movies. May be thinking, has nothing to do with being a single parent!
Oh no! Definitely they relate to single parents, especially the children. Most people have different opinions about Disney movies. Whether to allow their children to watch them. Some parents say it’s too much fantasy for them, they will think life works that easy. Especially for the girls, that they will find a rich handsome man, sweep them away from the situation they are from.
Now to the part you have been wondering about how they relate to single parents.
Most of these characters, start out with being with one parent, adoptive parents or no parents at all. These stories help children understand and have something to relate to what is going on in their lives. For example the movie- Cinderella
Cinderella losses her father, and is stuck with a person she hardly knows (stepmom). Many children actually go through it, more than we think do. We don’t know exactly how many, but we are sure there is children going through that situation. Cinderella wants a mother figure in her life, and just wants to please her new mom to accept her as her own. She cleans the whole house for her and her sisters, she cooks for them and does every command they say. SHE JUST WANTS TO BE PART OF A FAMILY
To keep it short, she ends up going to ball she’s not allowed to go to…how many kids sneak out or do the opposite of what their parents say? Lol. She ends up falling in love with the prince and the prince ends up falling in love with her, and live happily ever after and never has to clean ever again.
Okay, so the never again cleaning part, well is reality for some people, but for the average people we still clean. Our point we our trying to get across is, this movie is good to watch with the children, if you’re the stepmom for some laughs. Or just a single parent, and for the ones who have lost one parent.
It shows even if you have struggles to go through, whether you are being treated bad or lost a loved one. YOU can GET THROUGH it. Cinderella was able to cope with the loss of her father, for she knew how much he loved her. Even when surround with bad people around or bad bumps in the road. To know someone loved or loves you, and supports you to achieve your goals. You will be happy and you might not find that rich prince charming to get away from the struggles. But you, your self will find a way out and there is HOPE.
The point of these movies is giving hope to children and showing single parents that children grow up the same and become as successful as children with two parents. Children just need the love of their parent.
So we say YES to watch Disney movies they are educational, they bring hope and understanding in a fun, adorable, funny way. So grab that blanket and some popcorn in the bowl and start that extra bonding time.
Here is a small list of some movies of what situation they relate to.
- Single parents: Dumbo, Beauty and the beast, Nemo, The little mermaid, Mulan, Pocahontas, Toy story, Aristocats and many more.
- Adoptive/Step - parents: Pinocchio, Cinderella, Snow White, and many more.
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Sarah is a single mom working as a waitress at Ruby Tuesday. Two customers came into her work during her lunch shift, in their national guard uniforms. She overheard them talking about how they wanted to order something small, since they were low on cash. They also mentioned that this was due to the government shutdown, which was messing heavily with their income. Being a single mom, Sarah also knew what it was like to go through financial hardship. So out of the kindness of her heart, she covered the lunch for both of the customers. She also left a note, which was posted to facebook by the customers. This small act of kindness got so much attention, and it even received the attention from Ellen Degeneres.
Even as a single parent going home with $8 dollars in tips in her pocket, Sarah went out of her way to show kindness to others who were also suffering through hardship. She is a wonderful example to do well unto others. No matter what situation you are in, never forget to be kind to one another, and to reach out to others in need. You never know how the universe will reward you.
God Bless you single parents, and remember to "Be kind to one another".
Many people find themselves in a financial bind during the holiday season. This bind seems to come earlier and earlier each year. With the current economic crisis in full swing, many will find themselves struggling just to pay their bills let alone be able to purchase presents.
Charity doesn’t have to be one sided and if you are in a bind this holiday season, you can get help paying your bills, getting food in your home, and even getting presents for your children.
If you think you will need help, contact the organization as soon as possible to make sure there is plenty of help available. The sooner you contact them, the more chance you will have to get help. Remember that families who need the help the most will take priority. Some places, such as food pantries, soup kitchens, and other charity meal providers need only proof of your financial need and they will distribute food to you.
How do you contact some of these organizations? The first place to start is your local Department of Health and Human Services which is run by the state that you live in. They will help you determine if you are eligible for temporary state aide such as food stamps and other monetary assistance. They will be able to point you in the right direction for assistance and aide if they cannot help you.
Local utility company
Your local utility companies may have assistance programs as well which may help you reduce your monthly bills on a temporary basis so that you pay them and keep your lights and heat on. If you are a member of a church or religious organization, speak to your pastor or rabbi about your problems. Many times they will offer you money that is not expected to be paid back in order to get you through difficult times.
Organizations like Toys For Tots will help you get toys and gifts for your children, and the Salvation Army can assist with clothing and toys as well. All you have to do is ask, and there is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it.
Realize that no matter what you do, you can't force your child's father to be involved.
Although having a father figure is important, it's not everything. As a good mother, you don't need a father to rai...se your child in a quality fashion.
Forcing a reluctant father to talk on the phone will only confuse your child.
If you try to force a relationship with a father who doesn't want one, your child is bound to feel disappointed and rejected.
Don't talk negatively about your child's father, but don't glorify him, either.
Leave the door open for responsible contact between the father and your child.
College Grants For Single Mothers - What Would you Do with A College Grant
No one will dispute that the life of a single mom can be very hard, working one or two jobs to support your kids, making sure they get up and go to school or day care each day, ensuring that they do well in school and stay out of trouble. The list just goes on and on and for the single mom there seems to be no rest and little joy in their lives. College grants for single mothers may be things you have heard about but were never sure they were real or right for you.
If you could get a college grant thought, allow yourself to dream of what you might use it for? To finally pursue that career that would not only interest you but would help you to be a better mom to your kids? No more working two jobs or having to work overtime just to make ends meet?
Please visit SPAOA so you can do more than just dream about what is possible, college grants for single mothers can help you create a new life for you and your children.
Assistance For Single Mothers - Knowing What is Available is Half the Battle
The biggest reason why more single moms don’t get help with raising their kids is that they simply do not know that the help is out there for them. Assistance for single mothers can make a huge difference in the lives of mothers and their children, but if you are not aware of the help you are entitled to in your area or the programs that are available then you have no way to take advantage of them.
There are some places where you can look for this information such as your local health and human services, or the heating assistance program but if you do not have the time n your day to make the visits to these places then you will never know. Plus even these organizations re not always aware of the different help available for single moms, so what you really need to do is to join SPAOA. We can help you find assistance for single mothers, from local, state and federal agencies and organizations.
Single Mother Grants - Choosing What Type of Education you Want
Single mother grants are available in a number of different ways, you can get grants at a state, federal or private level and the grants can range from small amounts of money to help with tuition to larger amounts that will pay all of your tuition and some of your day to day costs. The biggest problem comes in when you try to decide what you want to do, it is important to first keep in mind that many single mother grants have a limitation on them for what type of schooling you can use them for, so you must first check on this before you start making decisions.
Once you know what type of schooling you can choose, (usually trade schools or no more than 2 year programs) you should look for something that will interest you, but do not fool yourself about money either. It is important that the trade you choose can comfortably support you and your children, hopefully you will be able to find both in an area near you, if not you will need to carefully balance both needs, keeping in mind that you may be able to build on your schooling later.
SPAOA can help you get more information on single mother grants and help you find programs that you can apply for. For more information please sign up for a free membership at SPAOA.
Housing Assistance for Single Mothers - Finding Housing for your Family
Finding a place to live with your family is never easy, but it can be even more difficult for the single mom with kids. Housing tends to be expense and the lower priced housing may not be fit to live in or in an area that is not ideal for raising kids. Fortunately there is housing assistance for single mothers however you will need to know where to look to find this. Also it is important that you start applying early, and have all of the information that you need to make your application.
Housing assistance for single mothers is available for renting or buying depending on your intent and the availability of funds, there are many different criteria in order to qualify for this assistance and grants. SPAOA can help you find all the resources you need for housing, schooling and much more, we are committed to help the single parent provide the best life possible for their kids.
Finding Help For Single Mothers
Finding out suddenly that you will be responsible for raising your kids alone is not always a welcome realization. For moms that are unprepared for such situations realizing that you must provide for your children can be a stressful proposition but not one that cannot be overcome. The first thing you must do is find help for single mothers in the form of resources and the best way to do that is on the Internet.
These days most local as well as national agencies are available online, you simply need to find them. SPAOA is the go between that helps you find help for single mothers that is available online. They offer you both local and national resources as well as the support you need to improve your life and that of your children. Membership at SPAOA is free and offers you a wealth of benefits and resources you won't want to do without.